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Stand Proud On Your Ground: Blessings In Disguise.

Four Agreements don miguel ruiz“The Four Agreements
1. Be impeccable with your word.
2. Don’t take anything personally.
3. Don’t make assumptions.
4. Always do your best. ”
Miguel Ruiz, The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom

So I am now on the other side of my latest challenges and I’m feeling very proud of the way in which I spoke my truth and stood my ground. It would have probably been better to manage that earlier but I was following my intuition all the way. My head was never happy about saying yes, but my heart needed to know what it would be like to tune in and I always got a yes. Until I got the no and was triggered for a couple of days of huge release, great clean out and helped to give me the confidence to be clear as I navigated my way through a tricky situation.

body in space

Starting to come back from that initial clearing and I discover someone has tried to steal my car and appears to have wrecked the ignition, can’t get the key in. It’s looking like I might need to be towed to replace the ignition. Just like any good mythical story I have a miracle three days later when a Good Samaritan helps me at very little cost, that’s what it’s like living in a good community. The same day my Beloved bought me a laptop that is exactly what I need, don’t have to share anymore although I do know a bit more about mac computers now so there were
benefits to the wait. Yay!


Then the day where I step into that larger version of me that stands easily in a place of power that is based in integrity and truth. Of course there have been tears and I have felt a bit shaky at times, but at the same time I feel incredibly liberated! Freedom! The thing is don’t expect that just because you are doing your best to take responsibility for the part you have played in events that this will be reciprocated by those with whom you are interacting. What is important is to act with honour for yourself, to be as honest and transparent as is possible. And with the prospect of no change to the inequitable situation the only possible course was to close that chapter immediately.


Hooray for the New Chapter of my Life, on as the Fool leaping off into the abyss and knowing with absolute trust that there is a feather bed waiting for my landing.


“If someone is not treating you with love and respect, it is a gift if they walk away from you. If that person doesn’t walk away, you will surely endure many years of suffering with him or her. Walking away may hurt for a while, but your heart will eventually heal. Then you can choose what you really want. You will find that you don’t need to trust others as much as you need to trust yourself to make the right choices.”
Miguel Ruiz, The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom

Speaking Whose Truth, The Heart And The Head As They Dance!

Heart head funnyMore challenges in the constant sea of change as I continue to grow into my larger self, speaking my truth and getting clear on what that truth may actually be for me. That is important to remember, the truth is a very, very large thing and it may not be exactly the same for each and every one of us. I have had a situation where I was saying yes with my intuition even though my head thought it was a really bad idea. I was exploring the notion of being in complete trust and saying yes to choices that my logical mind thought I should say no to. It didn’t seem to make a whole lot of difference to events, it brought ‘stuff’ up which I got the opportunity to release.

higher self

Then things changed and my head and my heart came together and agreed with the original conclusions of the logical brain. From the outside it might appear that I suddenly changed but it was an ongoing process of exploring the balance between trust and setting boundaries. I realised that assumptions had been made all over the place and that I still have some work to do when it comes to clear communication in the world. Well the important thing is to see the patterns that don’t support me and have the courage to change them. And to trust that by meeting this opportunity for growth with as much authenticity and truth as I can, I will continue to grow in being able to receive abundance!

pot of gold rainbow

I already have so much in the way of blissful blessings, not the least being my dearest Beloved, the Light of my life! That is my rock and my home, in the arms of the Beloved do I lay.

passionate embrace