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The Fire Of Love Never Runs Out.

My photo of my fire reborn!

My photo of my fire reborn!

The theme tonight is fire, death and rebirth, the power of three and the power of persistence, of never giving up………..just as love never stops or runs out. Anger, resentment, jealousy, pride and arrogance, even sorrow eventually will run out, but love just keeps on going. So if you can tap into that ocean which is always here you have become one with a power that is about as renewable as energy gets!

“The lover who leans upon the beloved’s response, his love is like the flame that needs oil to live; but the lover who stands on his own feet, is like the lantern of the sun that burns without oil.”

Hazrat Inayat Khan.

The Phoenix of flame rising from the ashes , hope burns eternal!

The Phoenix of flame rising from the ashes , hope burns eternal!

My beloved left a fire set for me to light as he would not be home until late, I treasure his delight in contributing to my happiness and enjoy a good fire so I set fire to paper before it was dark. All seemed well and I thought the fire was taking well but alas it failed, I girded my loins and mustered some fuel and managed to find a flame but again it seemed to die. After the third time I had almost given up but as I gazed at the fire I saw there was a bed of coals and the smaller log was glowing. I blew upon it and flames licked up, I coaxed the hot coals to deliver the heat that would finally get my fire going, the juices of my creativity that have been brewing in this lovers nest.

Look here my fire looks like a scene from outer space!

Look here my fire looks like a scene from outer space!

Oh what fun to explore the pathways of consciousness and connection and to share that with other beings, fellow seekers on the path of bliss and self-love. As we approach the Winter Solstice it is time to consider what you may be ready to shed, to let go of in the darkness of the longest night of the year, transforming into a rebirth as a new day dawns. But before that we have a Sagittarius Full Moon, the adventurous traveller and explorer of different realities inner and outer. The optimist who will always see the world as an exciting place to discover and who is therefore much more likely to be able to navigate turbulent times.


And we are living in tumultuous times, the possibility for positive change has never been so full even as we seem to see the dark forces triumphing over the poor and the helpless. Use your imagination to link with the powerful energies we are a part of and help us all to create the world we all want to live in, all of a sudden one day it will be here and there will be nothing that the ignorant can do about it. And perhaps even they will wake at the last, evolution ensures that we all will wake and flow through the process that eventually returns us to the unity that we have come from.

So be it, so be it, so be it.

Ride The Orgasmic Wave!


I’m trying to let go of it, but I’m just the slightest bit embarrassed by one of my recent posts, when I expressed frustration about having all this life force energy flowing like a torrent, and where is my Beloved! That was what you might term an authentic moment in my emotional landscape, it’s a country that is always shifting and changing, and I know perfectly well that there are many ways to channel that powerful energy. I’m beginning to do just that as I read “Tantric Orgasm for Women” by Diana Richardson for the third time, and this time I am actually going to do the exercises in the book!

Focusing on externals never really works, whether it’s people or places or possessions, at the end of the day it’s how you respond to all of that which determines everything. So I need to really feel what is going on in my body, and work constructively with the strong energies that are moving through. I’ve only ever done it in workshops, but there’s a very satisfying way to channel those energies through the chakras and produce an energetic orgasm. Believe me it’s not some pale substitute, it’s truly orgasmic and takes you into that space of unity and love, where all the world is beautiful and every breath a song.

When my crazy week is over I intend to make the time to create this experience for myself, it’s always harder to do these things on your own but my motivation is pretty strong at the moment so I think I can do it! Time to love myself in the deepest way possible and ride the wave of love into my glorious NOW!

Check out this clip from Nathan Martin talking about energy masturbation, there is an opportunity to go on to another clip that shows Nathan working with a woman’s energy so that she experiences an energetic orgasm. I encourage you to watch it even if you feel a bit uncomfortable, I could feel my resistance as I watched but I stayed with it and surrendered to the feelings of pleasure in my body just from seeing someone else go there.

ENJOY sensual blissings!


Search for the Beloved.

There are so many factors that make up a whole person, a whole world, an entire ecosystem………and every single part is important and plays a vital role. I’m still not entirely clear on the role of cockroaches, but anything that is that good at surviving must be here for a reason! At times I get a glimpse into that amazing complexity and find myself presented with the paradox that, while it is full of unique and varying qualities, it really is all one.

I know you’ve heard the cliché a thousand times but if you explore altered states of consciousness by whatever means, you will encounter that experience of unity, of being connected to everything. Anyone who’s been in love knows what that feels like, the world is a beautiful place full of a glowing inner light, and everything is a poem to delight.

Fortunately there are many different doorways to that place of bliss and ecstasy; otherwise we would be dependant upon other people to take us there. Of course most people still think that is the only way to get there which results in great joy and great suffering, and big dollars for those who sell the fantasy of the perfect love whether it be on the Hollywood silver screen, a romantic novel, or the latest model car. We live in a world where love has become another commodity and then we wonder why we feel so empty.

I feel that love every day of my life, but it has not always been the case I can assure you and it doesn’t mean that I don’t have darker moments. That love is my essential nature and I have spent the last 12 years clearing away everything that I could find that was in the way of my own shining light. My pit was deep and I am still shovelling the crap out of the way, but at last it has shifted from a process of suffering to one of gratitude and joy.

And so I have found love within myself, it springs from the fact that I am in exactly the right place, in the perfect moment, which is NOW, which is NOW, which is NOW………… I surrender to the call of Spirit and open to the connection with my Beloved in the flesh, oh yes I do indeed desire an earthly partner, but I was not ready until now. They say that when the student is ready the teacher will come, so it shall be with my beloved, as I open to life with passion and purpose and great joy!

Someday,  after mastering the winds, the waves, the tides and gravity, we shall harness  for God the energies of love, and then, for a second time in the history of the  world, man will have discovered fire.
Pierre Teilhard  de Chardin
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